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<ol><li>Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where by God’s grace, you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth right now, in these days, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   This podcast is about transformation -- a radical transformation of self, overcoming anything that gets in the way of us loving God our Father and Mary our Mother with the trust and dependence of a little child.  This podcast is all about real love in real relationships and it's messy.   I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here with you, to be your host and guide.  This podcast is part of Souls and Hearts, our online outreach at soulsandhearts.com, which is all about shoring up our natural foundation for the Catholic spiritual life, all about overcoming psychological obstacles to being loved and to loving God and neighbor -- This is episode 47, released on December 21, 2020  <ol><li>and it is titled: Shame and Redemption: St. Peter and You</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>it is the 11th episode in our series on shame.  </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Thank you for being here with me. </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>This episode stands alone</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Episodes 37, 38 and 39 lay out the conceptual foundations on shame</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Last episode we discussed how shame can lead to tragedy in the story of Judas Iscariot.  </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Continuing to illustrate shame and related concepts with stories  <ol><li>Now we are going to look at an story of intense shame and redemption.  <ol><li>The story of the Apostle Peter</li><li>Really going to look inside of Peter's mind, heart, body and soul today</li><li>Really focus on understanding what happened in his life  <ol><li>Making sense of his decisions, his choices</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>I share his name.  I connect with him, he makes so much sense to me.  Very similar parts. </li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>In our fallen world, in our fallen human condition, all of us have elements of what Peter struggled with.  <ol><li>We can learn from Peter's redemption </li></ol></li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li> </li><li>Profiling St. Peter  <ol><li>Teaching you to recognize parts in other, parts in yourself  </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>I am an IFS therapist -- really interested in parts of people</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Understanding parts really helps us grow in the understanding of ourselves and others  <ol><li>Socrates:  Know thyself</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Jesus:  Removing the beam in your own eye</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Recognizing, identifying your parts and the parts of others is really helpful for loving the other person.  Why?</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Loving a person means accepting loving all their parts.  All of them. <ol><li>It is really helpful to know a part in order understand what it needs.   </li><li>Doesn't mean affirming every action</li><li>Doesn't mean agreeing with every opinion</li><li>Doesn't mean endorsing every desire</li><li>Doesn't mean encouraging every impulse</li></ol></li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>See what you resonate with</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>What are parts?  <ol><li>Discrete, autonomous mental systems, each with own idiosyncratic range of emotion, style of expression, abilities, desires views of the world. <ol><li>Modes of operating</li><li>Subpersonalities</li><li>Orchestra model</li><li>Focus is on integration.  </li></ol></li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Get forced into extreme roles -- attachment injuries and relational traumas</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Three roles  <ol><li>Exiles -- <ol><li>most sensitive -- become injured or outraged.  Threatens the system, external relationships</li><li>Exploited, rejected, abandoned in external relationships</li><li>Want care and love, rescue, redemption</li><li>shame.  Need for redemption </li></ol></li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Managers  <ol><li>Protective, strategic, controlling environment, keep things safe</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Obsessions. Compulsions, reclusiveness, passivity, numbing. Panic attacks, somatic complaints, depressive episodes, hypervigiliance.</li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Firefighters  <ol><li>Stifle, anesthetize, distract from feelings of exiles</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>No concern for consequences</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Binge eating, drug/alcohol use, dissociation, sexual risk taking, cutting</li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Parts can take over the person  <ol><li>Like in Pixar Movie Inside Out -- anger taking over the control panel of the main character Riley</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>We call it blending.  </li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>IFS on the Self -- (recorded)  <ol><li>Self defined as the seat of consciousness</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Self can be occluded or overwhelmed by parts</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>When self accepts and loves parts, those parts transform back into who they were meant to be</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Self-led mind is self-righting.</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>self -- Active inner leader -- more than mindfulness</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Parts find the relationship with the self very reassuring  <ol><li>But to reap the benefits they have to unblend from and notice the self</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>This is frightening can challenging to parts</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Agency in the parts -- parts are making decisions about unblending in IFS model</li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Intrinsic qualities of the self  <ol><li>Curiosity</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Compassion</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Calm</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Confidence</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Courage</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Clarity</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Creativity</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Connectedness</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Kindness</li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>The self can be easily occluded, obscured, hidden by protective parts who take over in response to fear, anger or shame</li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>St. Peters Parts -- or modes of operating  <ol><li>Boldness, self confidence  Overconfidence  <ol><li>Manager Part.  </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Fisherman who owned his own boat  <ol><li>A part that wants to be big.  </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Have to make quick decisions</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Dangerous occupation</li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Respected in Galilee, a leader</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Courage, Fortitude</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Leads to forgetting the teaching of Jesus</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Established, married.  </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Defends against a shame exile.  </li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Spontaneity/Impulsivity <ol><li>Manager leaping in</li><li>Quick reactions -- this part leaps into action instantaneously  <ol><li>Man of action</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Courage here too</li></ol></li><li> </li><li>Trusted his instincts.  </li><li>Capable of intense emotion</li><li>Driven by that emotion  <ol><li>Seizing opportunities as they arise <ol><li>See opportunity, seize opportunity</li><li>No dithering</li></ol></li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Can lead to ra...</li></ol></li></ol></li></ol></li></ol></li></ol>

47 Shame and Redemption: St. Peter and You

Most of us are familiar with the 5 Love Languages; gift-giving acts of service, physical touch, words of affirmation, and quality time. But which of these is how God gives and receives love? 

Today Fr. Mike shares with us how God often loves us not in the way we might expect or prefer but in the way that most draws us into union with him. <a rel="payment" href="https://ascensionpress.com/products/support-ascension">Support The Fr. Mike Schmitz Catholic Podcast</a>

Does God Have a Love Language?

Join Dan and Stephanie Burke as they answer your questions about the spiritual life. Topics/Questions Covered in the Show: <ul> <li>How many people suffer from negative thoughts?</li> <li>How to find peace through negative thoughts.</li> </ul> Resources: <ul> <li><a href="https://www.spiritualdirection.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Spiritualdirection.com</a> – website</li> <li><a href="http://www.ewtn.com/radio/index.asp" target="_blank" rel="noopener">EWTN Global Catholic Radio</a></li> <li><a href="http://avila-institute.org/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">Avila Institute for Spiritual Formation</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.ewtnreligiouscatalogue.com/" target= "_blank" rel="noopener">EWTN Religious Catalogue</a> – online</li> <li><a href="https://www.apostoliviae.org/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">Apostoli Viae</a> - website</li> <li><a href="https://www.sophiainstitute.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">Sophia Institute</a> – website</li> <li>Searching for and Maintaining Peace - Fr. Jacques Philippe</li> <li>Discernment of Spirits - Fr. <a class="a-link-normal" href="https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=dp_byline_sr_ebooks_1?ie=UTF8&text=Timothy+M.+Gallagher+OMV&search-alias=digital-text&field-author=Timothy+M.+Gallagher+OMV&sort=relevancerank" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Timothy M. Gallagher OMV</a></li> <li>Questions? Send an e-mail to <a href= "mailto:Questions@myavila.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">Questions@myavila.com</a> or call 818-646-7729. Please leave your name, location, and question(s).</li> </ul> What is the Divine Intimacy Radio Show? The Divine Intimacy Radio Show is a haven of rest and wellspring of spiritual life for those people seeking an increased intimacy with God and the enlightened path of Catholic mystical and ascetical wisdom. Twice a week, host Dan Burke and his co-host, Stephanie Burke, explore topics related to the interior life and to authentic Catholic teaching. And, it's amazing what they do! On Tuesdays, they interview various authors about their spiritual books and about the authors’ own insights on those books. On Fridays, they get specific on subjects which primarily include prayer, spiritual direction, meditation, contemplation, and holiness.

Q&A "Dealing With Negative Thoughts"

Opening Credits

Introduction

Have confidence in God's mercy

Embrace God's will with equanimity

Practice humility to increase your generosity

Obey those placed in authority over you

Be patient as you seek perfection

Be modest in your bearing

Practice interior modesty

Learn modesty in speech

Accept reproofs without bitterness

Turn your attention to God

Simply love God

Continue to make good resolutions

Love God simply

Be untroubled by public opinion

Abandon yourself wholly to God

Do not seek special crosses or privileges

Desire nothing, refuse nothing

Biographical Note

End Credits

St. Francis de Sales offers a practical path to holiness through everyday life—work, rest, and play. He guides readers to cultivate virtues like patience, humility, and trust, emphasizing that loving God is accessible to all. This book encourages focusing on divine love amidst daily distractions, providing a gentle roadmap to spiritual growth.​

The Art of Loving God

Prof. Adam Eitel argues that God’s divine pedagogy makes the examples of the saints indispensable for our salvation, since their concrete, imperfect yet graced lives teach us how to endure sorrow, grow in virtue, and imitate Christ in the real circumstances of our own time. This lecture was given on October 6th, 2025, at Brown University. For more information on upcoming events, visit us at <a href="https://thomisticinstitute.org/upcoming-events" target="_blank">thomisticinstitute.org/upcoming-events</a>. About the Speakers: Professor Eitel is an Associate Professor of Theology at the University of Dallas. Before joining the UD faculty in 2023, he taught for eight years at Yale University, holding appointments in the Divinity School, the Program in Medieval Studies, and the Humanities Program. A specialist in medieval scholasticism, his research interests include doctrinal and moral theology, with a particular focus on the works of Thomas Aquinas and his contemporaries. His teaching and research bring historical Christian theology into dialogue with contemporary moral and political issues. Keywords: Augustine On Virtue, Cardinal Virtues In Scripture, Communion Of Saints, Divine Pedagogy, Exemplarity And Moral Formation, Imitation Of Christ, Job’s Patience, Moral Theology, Summa Theologiae, Thomistic Biblical Commentary

Why We Need the Saints – Prof. Adam Eitel

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Grow in trust and total abandonment to divine providence by following Mary’s example of loving obedience and unwavering faith. Reflect on how her yes at the Annunciation, her witness at Calvary, and her intercession in the Upper Room reveal the depth of her surrender to God’s plan. Learn to imitate her fiat, rejoice in her Magnificat, and ponder God’s mysteries with a heart open to grace. Let her lead you to love Jesus with her heart and trust Him completely, no matter the trial.

Icon of Trust | eBook

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Dcn. Jacob, soon-to-be Fr. Jacob, and Fr. Sean discuss the soon-to-be St. Pierre Giorgio Frassati.

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In this episode, we reflect on the importance of giving thanks to the Lord for all He has done in both the beautiful and difficult moments of life. We talk about how practicing gratitude can change our perspective of reality and helps us recognize where God has been present even in moments we do not understand. We also name the fears that can sometimes keep us from giving thanks and discuss how gratitude becomes an act of surrender that opens us to God's steady, faithful presence. As a gift to you, we end today's episode by doing Lectio Divina with Psalm 34 and invite you into a time of prayer with us. Heather's One Thing - <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/reel/DQ5d7KBjw8Z/?igsh=c2lwczdlY2t2dnhx"> Jalapeno, Pepper Jack, and Bacon Corn Pudding</a> Recipe Heather's Other One Thing - <a href= "https://open.spotify.com/track/6CTB0KwXXWGcJDnEB8maku?si=1fa7feabfe634d29"> Hell or High Water</a> and <a href= "https://open.spotify.com/track/03YcD5neduQG0yHoNlNSx5?si=9d1b941863dc4e48"> Edens</a> by Amanda Cook Sister Miriam's One Thing - Her <a href="https://solt.net/sisters">SOLT</a> Community Michelle's One Thing - College Football Other Resources Mentioned: <ul> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation">Life Transitions <a href= "https://www.abidingtogetherpodcast.com/podcastarchive/s16e15-life-transitions-with-chris-benzinger-part-1">Part One</a> and <a href= "https://www.abidingtogetherpodcast.com/podcastarchive/s16e16-life-transitions-with-chris-benzinger-part-2"> Part Two</a> with Chris Benzinger</li> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation"><a href= "https://www.amazon.com/One-Thousand-Gifts-Fully-Right/dp/0310321913/ref=pd_lpo_d_sccl_2/131-6984936-9157731?pd_rd_w=sKqou&content-id=amzn1.sym.4c8c52db-06f8-4e42-8e56-912796f2ea6c&pf_rd_p=4c8c52db-06f8-4e42-8e56-912796f2ea6c&pf_rd_r=5RBBBMSBYBAH9HKFXNH6&pd_rd_wg=UZr2u&pd_rd_r=ecdb33b5-8963-4f79-a79f-5422dbb91f24&pd_rd_i=0310321913&psc=1"> One Thousand Gifts: A Dare to Live Fully Right Where You Are</a> by Ann Voskamp</li> </ul> Journal Questions: <ul> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation">What graces have I received this year?</li> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation">How did the Lord accompany me this year?</li> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation">What do I need to let go of as we transition into a new liturgical year?</li> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation">What parts of my life am I afraid to give thanks for?</li> </ul> Discussion Questions: <ul> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation">What has the Lord taught you in this season?</li> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation">What was surprising this past year?</li> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation">What challenges and joys did you experience this year?</li> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation">Where are you resistant to give thanks?</li> </ul> Quote to Ponder: "Gratitude is at the center of a life of faith. It sounds too simple to be true, but isn't that the sign of all deep truth: so simple we're tempted to dismiss it, and so hard, it is exactly what God uses to change our hard lives." (Ann Voskamp) Scripture for Lectio: "I will bless the Lord at all times; his praise shall continually be in my mouth. My soul makes its boast in the Lord; let the humble hear and be glad. O magnify the Lord with me, and let us exalt his name together. I sought the Lord, and he answered me, and delivered me from all my fears. Look to him, and be radiant; so your faces shall never be ashamed. This poor soul cried, and was heard by the Lord, and was saved from every trouble. The angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear him, and delivers them. O taste and see that the Lord is good; happy are those who take refuge in him." (Psalm 34:1-8) Sponsor - The GIVEN Institute: The GIVEN Institute is a vibrant non-profit organization dedicated to activating the gifts of women for the Church and the world. GIVEN wants to help you receive the gift that you are, realize the gifts you've been given, and respond with the gift only you can give. Applications are now open for GIVEN's 2026 Leadership Program. Faithful Catholic women between the ages of 21 and 35 are encouraged to apply today! GIVEN's program includes participation at the Leadership Forum from June 24-28, 2026 in Washington, DC and a year of dedicated, 1-on-1 mentorship with an established Catholic female leader. Abiding Together Co-Host Heather Khym will be a speaker at the 2026 Leadership Forum next June along with other phenomenal Catholic women leaders of all ages, all vocations, and all walks of life. If you are a woman between the ages 21 and 35 and seeking leadership training, faith formation, and support to better understand and pursue your particular mission, GIVEN's Leadership Program is designed just for you! You'll grow in relationship with Christ, gain a deeper understanding of your personal vocation, and be empowered to develop an Action Plan to activate your personal gifts to impact the world. For women over 35 with a desire to get involved, please consider becoming a Mentor or Volunteer! For more information and to apply, please visit <a href= "https://www.giveninstitute.com/forum">www.giveninstitute.com/forum</a>. Chapters: 00:00 The Given Institute 01:26 Intro 02:16 Welcome 03:45 Practicing Being Thankful First 06:01 Giving Thanks in All Things 08:25 Gratitude is the Center of A Life of Faith 11:22 Being Afraid to Give Thanks 13:14 Lectio Divina 23:18 Our Reflections from Lectio 28:46 One Things Music used under license i94Cr0

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Q: Did St. Maximus anticipate Internal Family Systems thinking by 13 centuries?  A: In a word, Yes.  Maximus, writing in the seventh century, described in detail the unity and distinctions within the human person, and how each of us is a mediator that connects the spiritual and natural realms, and microcosm that contains within us the entire cosmos.  Mind-blowing ideas.  He also believes that each of us is a macrocosm, being able to influence the whole world in ways that matter.  Maximus was a sophisticated systems thinker.  He believed we already have certain virtues within us that can and should be released to flower.  And love was at the very center of his message.  Join Dr. Gerry Crete, Dr. Christian Amalu, and Dr. Peter Malinoski as they explore Catholic parts work and St. Maximus to your imagination break free.

169 St. Maximus the Confessor and Catholic Parts Work

Should we really talk to God about everything?

There are a lot of different kinds of prayers (liturgical, litanies, the rosary, the chaplet of divine mercy, etc.), but today Father hones in on mental prayer. Mental prayer—including lectio divina and Ignatius prayer—is about having a conversation with God and inviting him into your mind and your heart. But our minds are messy places, and our hearts are wounded. Should we really be talking to God about all of our thoughts, longings, and desires?<a rel="payment" href="https://ascensionpress.com/products/support-ascension">Support The Fr. Mike Schmitz Catholic Podcast</a>

What Should We Talk to God About? Everything.

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Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem The huge mistake we make with our emotions in a crisisEpisode 7:  April 10, 2020Let’s get right to it.  Today we are discussing the one huge mistake that we human beings tend to make with our emotions when we are in a drawn-out crisis situation. One major mistake that we all are prone to make when we are stressed.  And we’re going to also not just discuss the remedy to that huge common mistake – but also we are going to practice that remedy.  I will walk you through an experiential exercise to help you rise above that common mistake and help you know yourself better.  So stay with me, here we go…Cue musicWelcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem where together we embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth during this pandemic, all grounded in a Catholic worldview. I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski with Souls and Hearts.  Thank you for being here.  So what is the great mistake that many of us make with our intense emotions in a crisis?  In one word the answer is:  Neglect.  We neglect them.  We disregard them.  We don’t pay attention to them.  We avoid them.  We defend against them so that in an emergency they don’t keep us from being able to act.  And that is helpful in the short run.  Imagine firefight on a battlefield where a soldier’s legs are wounded by shrapnel and he can’t move.  His buddy moves quickly and efficiently to stop the bleeding and is carrying him back to the medic for care.  It would not help his buddy to get overwhelmed with emotion, fear, or a sense of loss, or to remember in that moment all the good times they had together on base.  Temporarily, his buddy can keep out of conscious awareness all those memories and all that emotion to be able to focus on the demands of the moment.  And that is a gift from God.  We naturally have defenses that keep some of our internal experience out of conscious awareness so we can function under stress.  We call them defenses because they defend us, they protect us against internal experiences that otherwise would overwhelm us, swamp us with their intensity.  Some clinicians call these defenses coping mechanisms.  So what are these defenses?  You’ve heard of many of them – denial, repression, avoidance, dissociation – I have a list of about 50 of them that I consider when I’m doing psychological evaluations. The function of all of these defenses is to protect us from being overwhelmed by our experience, particularly intense emotional experiences.  The problem is that over time, these defenses all have costs.  There is a price to pay for using a defense.  The costs is often part of the defense itself – for example, getting hung over after drinking too much.  But a cost common to all defenses is that are not as in touch with our emotions.  In general, people only deal with what they consciously experience and they assume that this is all that there is.  If I don’t feel it, it’s not there.   If a defense is working effectively, it keeps all or at least part of an emotion out of our awareness.  And when we don’t know what we are feeling we are at a disadvantage.  For example, we can’t share those experiences with other people or bring them to God in prayer.  We are not integrated, connected with emotion.  Let me make comparison to the body.  There are some people with rare genetic condition who cannot feel physical pain.   It’s called congenital analgesia And it’s thought to be related to a genetic mutation that interrupts the normal functioning of pain messages in the central nervous system.  They don’t feel it when they burn their mouth with hot coffee, they don’t feel pain when they injure themselves in any way.  Some people might wish to have this condition – to live a pain free life!  But they tend to have short lives.  They don’t have the warning system to protect themselves.  So an example.  Let’s say that you are angry with your spouse, but you have defended against that anger.  It’s likely to come out in your behavior, in ways that you intellect and will can’t address as effectively.  We call that enactment or acting out.  It’s a way of discharging some unconscious emotion through action.  Have you ever had the experience where you where pretty sure someone felt something toward you, but they weren’t aware of it?  Or how about the guy who insists in a frustrated, angry tone, that he is not angry.  “I’m not angry, why do you keep telling me I’m angry?!”  Often people believe what they are saying in those moments.  They are not in touch with their experience.  .  Floyd at the work.  He’s the last one – never complained. He’s enacting.  So now we are weeks into this crisis.  It’s dragging on.  We’ve had time to build up emotions about it.  The problem is not that we have some temporary disconnect from intense emotion.  But when we don’t seek to understand ourselves, when we stay unaware of what we are feeling – then problems come in.How can my emotions influence my actions when I am not feeling them?  Emotions signal important things going on within us.  They inform us about our experience.  And when they are kept out of awareness by defenses, there is a God-given pull for the trouble to come to the surface.  The more we repress and refuse to acknowledge an emotion, the more that emotion tries to get to the surface.  It’s like trying to keep a beach ball under the water.  Or think about it this way.  Have you ever been in the presence of compassionate person and then all of sudden had an insight about what you’re really struggling with – a realization.  The love of the other helps the defenses to relax so the problem can come to the surface without overwhelming you.  Remedy: Experiential exercise.  Not therapy.  Sounds really simple Importance of Gentleness with self.  A very important aspect of heartset:  Willingness to look inside and own what is there.  Seek and ye shall find.  Slow down.  You can find out.  Create the conditions.  Mindset of acceptance of all your internal experience.   Be willing to own your emotions.  If we are, we are going to see things we don’t want to see.  Impulses, desires, attitudes, but also emotions.  Shame, grief, anger,  First and second moral acts.   Saints:  Discuss wretchedness not their wonderfulness?Set asideTime to feel.  Space to feel.  Relationship to feel Note your reactions.Drawing or doodling. Writing down in a journal – putting thoughts and feelings into words allows us to engaging the will and the intellect. Let me know how this exercise goes for you.  Email me at     <a href="mailto:crisis@soulsandhearts.com">crisis@soulsandhearts.com</a> Let’s stay connected. If you sign up at soulsandhearts.com for this podcast you will get the Wednesday morning email with extra tips and insider information, including sneak peaks.  For example, I will send you a list of the names of 50 or so defenses that I consider in evalu...

7 The Huge Mistake We Make with our Emotions in a Crisis

Join Catholic IFS therapists Marion Moreland, Jody Garneau, and Dr. Peter Malinoski for an in-depth discussion of unburdening, informed by Internal Family Systems and grounded in a Catholic understanding of the human person.  We explore three kinds of burdens -- personal burdens, legacy burdens, and unattached burdens (the IFS equivalent of demons), we provide examples from our own lives, we emphasize the importance of felt safety and protection for all parts, and we discuss the role of attachment theory in unburdening.  In our Q&amp;A with our live audience, we discuss how to approach "hiding parts" as well.

115 Unburdening in Internal Family Systems -- A Catholic Discussion

When we pray “lead us not into temptation”, it may seem like God has the capacity to tempt us. But that’s not the case. God does not tempt us, but he can and sometimes must put us through tests. Here are a four helpful ways to look at this part of the Our Father:

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<li>Tests reveal things to us. When God tests us, it reveals how much faith, hope, and love we have in God and for God.</li>
<li>Tests also strengthen us. As St. Paul says, “We rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope” (Romans 5:3-4).</li>
<li>When we say, “lead us not into temptation”, what we’re really asking is “God, please don’t test me beyond my ability.” Trials will and must come, but when they do, we should ask God for no more than what we can endure.</li>
<li>While God may not tempt us, the evil one does. God tests us by allowing the evil one to do what he does—so we can benefit from the strength and self-revelation that comes from the test.</li>
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Does God Ever Lead Us into Temptation?

This gripping account tells the little-known story of the Spanish Crusade of 1936, when faithful Catholics defended the Church against violent persecution. In just six months, thousands of clergy were martyred, churches destroyed, and the Faith nearly extinguished—yet, against all odds, the crusaders triumphed. A powerful narrative of courage, sacrifice, and victory, revealing the true meaning behind the Spanish Civil War.

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Dr. Christopher Mooney asks "whether God really cares about our suffering" and uses biblical narratives, the significance of Christ’s tears, and philosophical responses to death in order to answer in the affirmative, ultimately showing that God can form a greater good from evil without making the evil into something good. This lecture was given on October 9th, 2025, at University of Louisiana at Lafayette. For more information on upcoming events, visit us at <a href="https://thomisticinstitute.org/upcoming-events" target="_blank">thomisticinstitute.org/upcoming-events</a>. About the Speakers: Dr. Christopher Mooney is an assistant professor of theology at the Augustine Institute Graduate School in St. Louis, Missouri, where he teaches on Catholic theology, scriptural interpretation, and the Church Fathers. His teaching and research specialize in Augustine, the Fathers, and historical theology, and he is the author of Augustine's Theology of Justification by Faith (2026). A native of Connecticut, he studied at Georgetown and Yale Divinity School before receiving his PhD from the University of Notre Dame. He also serves as a theological representative for the USCCB's Catholic-Reformed dialogue. He lives next door to the Augustine Institute's campus with his wife and four children. Keywords: Biblical Meaning of Suffering, Christ’s Tears and the Cross, Divine Providence, Faith and Hope, Forgiveness, Permitted Evil, Problem of Evil, Suffering and Eternal Joy, Tragedy of Death, Wrong Ways to Explain Suffering

Does God Care About Suffering? – Dr. Christopher Mooney

Is there any hope for unity in the United States of America? Fr. Mike gives a resounding &quot;yes&quot;. But not over politics or policies—but the principles that our country was founded on.

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Politics vs. Principles

Join Dr. Peter and our audience members to experience a guided meditation on your parts’ needs for integrated formation. Guided by John Paul II’s four dimensions of personal formation (human, spiritual, intellectual, and pastoral) you have an opportunity to see what a part of you needs. Several audience members debrief from the exercise and we all discuss with some Q&amp;A.

140 Your Personal Formation: Experiential Exercises and Q&A

Feeling safe. Feeling seen and heard. Feeling reassured, soothed. Feeling cherished and delighted in. Feeling loved. Feeling that I belong. We all have these six attachment needs. But how do our parts experience these needs? Which kinds of parts have which kinds of attachment styles? How can I recognize which attachment needs different parts of me have? Where do I start in helping a part of me who is struggling with unmet attachment needs and an insecure attachment style? Catholic IFS therapists Marion Moreland and Peter Martin join me to discuss and answer these questions in depth. And, as a bonus, I offer you an experiential exercise to help you get in touch with your parts’ attachment needs and find the “next right step” in meeting them.  For the full video experience with visuals, graphics, and discussion in the comments section, check us out on our YouTube channel here:  <a href="http://www.youtube.com/@InteriorIntegration4Catholics">www.youtube.com/@InteriorIntegration4Catholics</a>

160 Your Parts Have These Six Attachment Needs

How do we live in these times? We are called to something so contrary to what the culture offers. In this episode, Jeff expounds on what makes the call of Christ so contrary. He explains how we need to “wake up!”

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Let your words and deeds cry out “I have encountered the Lord!”

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Wake Up!

What does covetousness mean? Today, we launch into the ninth commandment, which deals with carnal concupiscence. This commandment addresses the tension between the “flesh” and the “spirit.” Fr. Mike emphasizes that purity of heart and temperance are crucial to overcoming lust of the flesh. The more we obey God, the more our hearts see others as God sees them. Today’s readings are Catechism paragraphs 2514-2519. 

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Day 324: The Ninth Commandment (2024)

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Episode 19:  Healing from Losses, Healing with GriefJune 8, 2020Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resiliency, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  Thank you for being here with me.  This is episode 19, Healing from Losses, Healing with Grief, released on June 8, 2020.  And in this episode we really get into how do we heal?  How do we move through our losses and heal?Story TimeRemember the story of Richard and Susan from Episode 17?  Let’s catch up with them and see how they are doing.  Now Richard and Susan have been married 28 years, and their three sons are 27, 25, and 23 years old, and all have moved out of the home and are very busy with their lives.  Richard is 61 years old and is somewhat emotionally reserved – he was introverted, and didn’t talk a lot about feelings.  He is not that interested in religion, but usually attends Sunday Mass with Susan. He had risen in management at his international engineering firm, eventually leading a team of six in joint venture in artificial intelligence with a foreign company.   When that joint venture ended abruptly due to the other firm stealing intellectual property, and the coronavirus lockdowns happened, Richard was laid off.  With the worsening economic environment, it’s unlikely he will return to that position.  He is struggling with identity issues now, as he has been so invested in his work for so many years. After the layoff he initially kept himself busy with home projects and tinkering with go karts, but lately he has been much more withdrawn and spent much more time distracting himself on the internet, and also experimenting with day-trading stocks.  Susan is 60, she is more extroverted, much more emotionally expressive with a wide circle of friends and acquaintances.  Susan is eagerly awaiting grandchildren now that her oldest son has married.  She had been hoping that with her husband home from work and their sons moved out, they would renew their relationship, but there is more distance than ever.  Susan has been troubled by the emotional distance in her marriage for the last 25 years, and doesn’t know what to do about it, and for several years there has been almost no physical closeness.  This is more acute for her now, that her social activities and connections have been curtailed by the social distancing restrictions.  Twenty years ago, Susan experienced a real deepening of her faith and she began to practice it more seriously, with a regular prayer life an occasional daily Mass and regular confession.  She had a scare with breast cancer five years ago from which she recovered.  She continues to be in high demand as a professional translator in Spanish and Italian.   She has been deeply worried upon finding out two weeks that the first case of the coronavirus has been confirmed at her mother’s assisted living facility.  Now her 87 year old mother has shortness of breath, a fever, fatigue and a cough.  Now her mother’s health is failing rapidly as they wait for the results of a COVID-19 test.  Susan also recently discovered a pornographic pop up window on her husband’s home office desktop.   She asked her husband about it, but he said it was nothing.     Quick review from episode 17, where we made clear some definitions.  Loss: deprived of a real, tangible good.  Something good is taken from us – it can be the loss of an actual good, or a potential good.Grief is our individual experience of loss –Grief is our reaction to the loss.  It’s our experience of the loss.  Psychological, physical, behavioral, emotional.   Mourning is a public expression of our grief, it’s what we show to others.  Mourning is how we show our grief.   For Richard            Loss – loss of job, loss of income, loss of identity, confronting aging and physical decline (no more go-karting, too hard on the body)            Grief – Six stages:  Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance, Making Meaningexpressed through increased activity initially, seeking distractions through focusing attention (excitement of day trading), seeking comfort in increased pornography use, emotional and physical withdrawal, numbing negative emotions            Mourning – façade of being unaffected, brushing off attempts at connection, consolation  For Susan:            Loss – Loss of mother, loss of trust in her husband, loss of illusions about marriage            Grief – Six stages:  Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance, Making Meaningcrying, sadness, anger at husband (sense of betrayal), body image issues (sexually undesirable) regret over lost time, “wasting her life” in the marriage, accepting her husband as he is and loving him anyway.  Concentration difficulties.              Mourning – sharing with friends, bereavement group, letter to Mom, writing poetry, prayer, reading,   Helpful tips 1.       Remember that any loss that God permit is a gift.  He only permits losses to provide a greater good to the one who grieves.  We may not see that – we may only see it in a conceptual, intellectual way, and not feel it.  But our feelings do not dictate reality, and they don’t always reflect reality.  Romans 8:28.  All things work together for good, for those who love the Lord.  If we can conceptualize losses as gifts, we can look for the gift in spite of the grief, in spite of the pain.  2.      Feel the pain of the grief.  Allow yourself to feel it.  Accept your emotions, whatever they are.  Don’t pack it away in amber.  This is what Richard originally tried to do – just wanted to move on with life, considered retirement, porn use to help him feel better, have a sense of control.  a.       Allow the time for grief – packed schedule  -- Susan cut back her work schedule.  b.      Allow for not understanding – when you are grieving you may not understand and that’s ok.  – relief comes not from understanding and knowing, but from confidence, trust, and relational connection.  Think of little kids.  3.      Share the grief with someone you trust– a friend, friend, family member, counselor, confessor – talk about the losses.  Susan’s friend Valerie – listened to her.  a.       Particularly important to share this grief in prayer.  With God.  With Mary, or with another saint.  Guardian angel.  Share it and listen.  b.      Providential view.  We may not unde...

19 Healing from Losses, Healing with Grief

Homily from the First Sunday of Advent. You will never be ready unless you get ready. Advent is a season of preparation. We get ready to celebrate the first coming of Christ into this world. We also get ready for His Second Coming at the end of the world…or at the end of our individual lives. During Advent, we get ready to die.<dl style="margin : 0; padding-top:0;"><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> Mass Readings from December 02, 2018:</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> Jeremiah 33:14-16</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> Psalms 25:4-5, 8-9, 10, 14</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;">1 Thessalonians 3:12—4:2</dt> Luke 21:25-28, 34-36 <a href="https://bulldogcatholic.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/advent-2018-be-ready-get-ready.pdf">Download the Homily Study</a>

12/02/18 Be Ready, Get Ready

IT'S ALL ABOUT JESUS! In the latest episode of The Poco a Poco Podcast, Fr. Innocent, Fr. Angelus, and Fr. Mark-Mary take a totally fresh look at the Beatitudes. And what do we discover in the beatitudes? We discover the face of Jesus and the invitation to become authentically, and overwhelmingly, fascinated with Jesus. IT'S ALL ABOUT JESUS! Jesus offers us the Beatitudes as a reminder of what it means to be truly blessed. We are invited to be blessed like Jesus, and that is very good news. But don't get caught on the first half of the beatitude (the hard or uncomfortable part). In each beatitude is also a promise, and we all know, we worship a Father who always keeps his promises.

Becoming Fascinated with Jesus

The sacraments that Christ gave his church are powerful. They are life changing. But... they are not magic.

Jesus Christ&#39;s life, death, and resurrection makes salvation possible for all of us. But there is one key ingredient that only you can supply. Fr. Mike encourages you to give that key ingredient to God today.<a rel="payment" href="https://ascensionpress.com/products/support-ascension">Support The Fr. Mike Schmitz Catholic Podcast</a>

"I Go to Mass, but it Feels Like Nothing Changes"

Homily from the Nineteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time. It is one thing to start walking. It is another thing to keep walking. Distraction is anything that takes our focus away from where it needs to be.<dl style="margin : 0; padding-top:0;"><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> Mass Readings from August 9, 2020:</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> 1 Kings 19:9, 11-13</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> Psalms 85:9-12, 13-14</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;">Romans 9:1-5</dt> Matthew 14:22-33

08/09/20 Why Did You Stop?

Fr. Mike focuses on Ezekiel&#39;s warnings about false prophets misleading the people of Israel, and challenges us to reflect whether we choose to listen to prophets who tell us what we need to hear, not just what we want to hear. Today&#39;s readings are Isaiah 51-52, Ezekiel 12-13, and Proverbs 12:21-24.

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Day 215: False Prophets (2024)

We have a tendency to want to fix the people we love. While delighting in all their good traits, we think, “If only they didn’t have this one quirk...” In this episode, Fr. Mike Schmitz explains that love embraces the entire person just the way he or she is. ​He then gives some practical advice on how to do that.<a rel="payment" href="https://ascensionpress.com/products/support-ascension">Support The Fr. Mike Schmitz Catholic Podcast</a>

Wanting to Fix People

We have seen how harming ourselves or others physically is a violation of the fifth commandment, but how can causing harm to another’s virtue or integrity violate this commandment? Fr. Mike unpacks what scandal is and exactly how it is a violation of the fifth commandment. He emphasizes the gravity of scandal when it comes from those who, by nature, teach, and how vital it is for all of us, but especially teachers, to avoid contributing to scandal. Today’s readings are Catechism paragraphs 2284-2287.

This episode has been found to be in conformity with the Catechism by the Institute on the Catechism, under the Subcommittee on the Catechism, USCCB.

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Day 298: Respect for Others (2025)

Homily from the Sixteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time. Feeling anxious, worried, or sorry for yourself is normal. It is also completely unhelpful. We have a problem. And the problem is that we can do the right thing in the wrong way. We can choose to serve...while feeding our worry and self-pity. We can carry our cross...while feeling anxious and sorry for ourselves. Everything comes down to one question; it is not a matter of being tough, it is a matter of trust.<dl style="margin : 0; padding-top:0;"><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> Mass Readings from July 17, 2022:</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> Genesis 18:1-10</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> Psalms 15:2-5</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;">Colossians 1:24-28</dt> Luke 10:38-42

07/17/22 The Question

Jeff brings together seven Scripture verses on relationships to help us simplify and declutter our relationships. Reflecting on these will help you in your family life, friendships, work relationships, and your relationship with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. 

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7 Steps to Decluttering Your Relationships

This lecture was given on February 6th, 2024, at Regent University. For more information on upcoming events, visit us at thomisticinstitute.org/upcoming-events About the speaker: Marcus Plested holds the Henri de Lubac Chair in Theology at Marquette University. He holds a PhD from Oxford University and has been a member of the Center of Theological Inquiry and the Institute for Advanced Study in Princeton, NJ. He has taught, lectured, and published widely in patristic, Byzantine, and modern Orthodox theology. He is the author of two books to date: The Macarian Legacy: The Place of Macarius-Symeon in the Eastern Christian Tradition (Oxford: OUP 2004) and Orthodox Readings of Aquinas (Oxford: OUP 2012).

West vs East: Is Thomism Compatible with Orthodoxy | Prof. Marcus Plested

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Is Jesus who He says He is? How do we know he&#39;s not a liar or a lunatic? 

Today, Fr. Mike shares a story from his own life about a time when he was taking a class on world religions and their belief systems and how a quote from C.S. Lewis changed everything for him about how he came to understand who Jesus truly is.

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This One Thing Makes Christianity Different From Every Other Religion

You might have heard that Sunday, as the Sabbath, is a &quot;day of rest.&quot; But is that just, like, an honorary title? What does that actually mean for Christians? What should be doing—or not doing—on Sundays? Today, Fr. Mike tells us why Christians are asked to rest from work on Sundays.<a rel="payment" href="https://ascensionpress.com/products/support-ascension">Support The Fr. Mike Schmitz Catholic Podcast</a>

Why Do We Need to Rest from Work on Sundays?

Fr. Mike looks at Joash&#39;s downfall and disobedience after the death of Jehoida. We learn how important it is to have good mentors in our lives who keep us grounded in the faith. Fr. Mike also emphasizes the significance of Psalm 69 and how to properly interpret it. Today&#39;s readings are 2 Kings 1, 2 Chronicles 24, and Psalm 69.

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Day 170:  Joash's Downfall (2024)

Do you ever feel like you’re different from everyone else? Today, Jeff invites us to marvel at the reality that each person is unrepeatable and a unique masterpiece of God’s creativity and love. 

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“God has the ability to create billions of people and no two are the same.”

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You Are Unrepeatable

Resources: <ul> <li><a href= "https://stpaulmemphis.com/product/introduction-to-devout-life-tan-classic-francis-de-sales/"> Introduction to the Devout Life</a> - St. Francis de Sales</li> <li><a href="http://SpiritualDirection.com/shop">Spiritual Warfare and the Discernment of Spirits</a> - Dan Burke</li> <li><a href= "https://www.sophiainstitute.com/products/item/the-contemplative-rosary"> The Contemplative Rosary</a> - Dan Burke and Connie Rossini</li> <li><a href="http://onelink.to/92tyk4">The Contemplative Rosary App</a> (phones and tablets only)</li> <li><a href="http://SpiritualDirection.com/shop">A Catholic Guide to Mindfulness</a> - Susan Brinkmann OCDS</li> <li><a href= "https://avila-institute.org/events/">Avila-Institute.org/events</a> - website</li> <li><a href="http://avila-institute.org/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener noreferrer">Avila Institute for Spiritual Formation</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.ewtnreligiouscatalogue.com/" target= "_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">EWTN Religious Catalogue</a> – online</li> <li><a href="https://www.sophiainstitute.com">Sophia Institute Press</a> - online</li> </ul>

Introduction to the Devout Life

God’s free initiative demands man’s free response. We continue our discussion of grace today by examining how grace and our free will interact in our lives. Fr. Mike also explains the purpose of sacramental graces and how the expression of these graces looks different across the Body of Christ. Today’s readings are Catechism paragraphs 2002-2005. 

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Day 263: Responding to Grace (2025)

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Eastern Catholicism (Sr. Natalia) | Ep. 296

&quot;The good God gave us a father and mother more worthy of heaven than of earth&quot; - Saint Therese  Enter into the incredible story of a humble watchmaker and beautiful lacemaker that fell in love and changed countless hearts because of their devotion to God and one another. Saints Louis and Zelie Martin not only raised a saint, but lived lives of heroic virtue themselves, chasing holiness to the very end.  Saints Alive is brought to you by the #1 Catholic Prayer App, Hallow! Sign up today with a <a href='http://hallow.com/saintsalive'>30-day free trial!</a>Please rate, review and share with friends and family!Find out more about Saints Alive at our website: <a href='https://www.saintsalivepodcast.com/'>https://www.saintsalivepodcast.com/</a>

Saints Louis & Zelie Martin

Homily from the Second Sunday in Ordinary Time. The single unifying principle unites all of the various threads of our life into one whole image. It is “too little” to remain who you are instead of becoming who God needs you to be.<dl style="margin : 0; padding-top:0;"><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> Mass Readings from January 19, 2020:</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> Isaiah 49:3, 5-6</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> Psalms 40:2, 4, 7-10</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;">1 Corinthians 1:1-3</dt> John 1:29-34 <a href="https://bulldogcatholic.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/underestimated-single-unifying-principle.pdf">Download the Homily Study</a>

01/19/20 Underestimated: Single Unifying Principle

Together, we begin the chapter on the sacraments of initiation, specifically the section on the sacrament of Baptism. Fr. Mike unpacks the different names that the Church employs when discussing Baptism, such as the “washing of regeneration and renewal” and “enlightenment.” He concludes with a reflection on the prefigurations of Baptism in the Old Covenant. Today’s readings are Catechism paragraphs 1210-1222.

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Day 166: Introduction to Baptism (2024)

In this special edition, I invite you to an experiential exercise to connect in a loving way with your parts who are  in any distress or suffering with the armed conflict between Hamas and Israel and the humanitarian tragedies that conflict has brought.  I do this experiential exercise along with you, working with my Adventurer part who has been burdened with fear and anxiety, especially around the conflict broadening out regionally in the Middle East and beyond.  Parts also have an opportunity, with your innermost self to question and challenge God about what is happening.

124 Your parts, IFS, and war: An experiential exercise

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4/7 - St. John Baptiste de la Salle

In this episode, we conclude in our Lenten series as we journey through Sister Miriam's book Restore. It's not too late to join us! <a href= "https://www.avemariapress.com/products/restore">You can find your copy today at Ave Maria Press</a>. We discuss entering into the paschal mystery with our whole hearts. We chat about the different characters of the Passion - Judas, Mary of Bethany, Peter - and how we can experience God's extravagant love through the Holy Week liturgies. We pray that you would be open to the Holy Spirit, carry the light burden of sacrifice this week, and experience the resurrection power of Jesus! Sister Miriam's one thing - <a href= "https://open.spotify.com/album/6evD4A0r5ZzOigmJHg9QM8?si=BVG24SDVTKqV_10R2SzKBA"> Soaking in His Presence - William Augusto Bethel</a> Heather's one thing - <a href= "https://alphacanada.org/preview/life-on-purpose/">The Life on Purpose Series by Alpha</a> Michelle's one thing - The Gift of Brother Priests Discussion Questions: <ol> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">What stood out to you from this week's episode?</li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">What traditions have been helpful to your family to enter into Holy Week and prepare for Easter?</li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">How can we make this week different, entering into the suffering, death and resurrection of Jesus? </li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">As we celebrate Easter, how will you live the reality of resurrection power in your daily life? </li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">As we prepare for Pentecost, how can you allow the Lord to use you by being more open and receptive to the Holy Spirit? </li> </ol> Journal Questions: <ol> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">Research the Holy Week liturgies at your local parish. Ask Jesus how He wants you to experience one of the extraordinary liturgies this week. </li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">Read Matthew 26:6-13. Put yourself in the scene as Mary of Bethany and take time to imagine what it smells like, what it feels like, and how Jesus looks at you. What does Jesus want to reveal to you through this? </li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">Read Matthew 26: 69-75. Imagine yourself as Peter and allow Jesus to see you even in your betrayals. What does Jesus want to say to you through this?</li> </ol> Quotes to Ponder: "He will provide the way and the means, such as you could never have imagined. Leave it all to Him, let go of yourself, lose yourself on the Cross, and you will find yourself entirely." - St. Catherine of Siena Scripture for Lectio Divina: "Hosanna to the Son of David, blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord." -Matthew 21:9 This episode is sponsored by Pilgrimage to Beauty. Pilgrimage to Beauty's (@guatehickman) sole aim is to give you a unique once-in-a-lifetime experience that transforms and renews your spirit, no matter your vocation or state in life. Join them on a pilgrimage to the breathtaking shores of Lake Atitlan, Guatemala this December 2022, and rest, pray, and experience beauty. Mention Abiding Together and get $100 off registration.

S11 E12 Lent Part 6: Sacrifice and Holy Week

How can you discern if the voice you&#39;re hearing is genuinely God&#39;s? How can you be sure it isn&#39;t just your own thoughts or even something deceptive? 

Fr. Mike offers insight into recognizing God&#39;s guidance by asking key questions: Does the voice contradict Scripture or the teachings of the Church? Who does the voice sound like, and what are the characteristics of God&#39;s voice?

He explains that divine guidance is often confirmed by its fruitfulness—bringing lasting peace, joy, and alignment with God&#39;s will. Fr. Mike encourages us to trust God step by step. He says it does not take blind leaps to see how even the most minor acts of faith can produce meaningful fruit over time.<a rel="payment" href="https://ascensionpress.com/products/support-ascension">Support The Fr. Mike Schmitz Catholic Podcast</a>

How Can I Know That It's Actually God's Voice?

Happy New Year! Today, Jeff gives some encouragement for starting 2021 strong and spiritually healthy.

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“You can know his heart and plan, but if you don’t trust him, you may end up placing your trust in other things.”

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Thank God It’s Friday

John A. Cuddeback is professor of Philosophy at Christendom College, where he has taught for twenty-five years. He lectures widely on topics including virtue, fatherhood, friendship, and household, and his professional writings appear in various academic journals and books.

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Professor of Church history, Dr. James Papandrea, gathers in one place all that is known about the afterlife — drawn from the teachings of Jesus, the Apostles, the Church Fathers, and the Church's Magisterium — affording, for the first time ever, a complete, authoritative, detailed portrait of the state of souls after death and the realms we enter.

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We continue our examination of Christ’s acts through the sacraments that he instituted. Fr. Mike emphasizes the importance of understanding that the sacraments are sacred signs that “make present efficaciously the grace they signify.” The sacraments specifically signify the Paschal mystery, Christ’s life, death, and resurrection. We also explore how the Paschal mystery cannot remain in the past. Though it occurred in time, it transcends all time and is made present in all time. Today’s readings are Catechism paragraphs 1084-1090.

This episode has been found to be in conformity with the Catechism by the Institute on the Catechism, under the Subcommittee on the Catechism, USCCB.

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Day 147: Christ’s Work in the Liturgy (2025)

We continue our examination of the fifth commandment, taking a closer look at the sin of euthanasia. Fr. Mike emphasizes that whatever the motive, the action of ending a life in order to eliminate suffering is still a sin. He also emphasizes that palliative care, however, is an important and special form of charity and love. Today’s readings are Catechism paragraphs 2276-2279.

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Day 296: The Sin of Euthanasia (2025)

Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/Cameronfradd Today I interview the coolest person in the world. Seriously. :) We talk about how to be present to those around us. Everyone, our kids, our friends, even people at the checkout. The conversation went long so I broke the interview into two. This is the first part, next week will be the second.

12: How to be present to those around us, with Cecilia Everett

Today with our live audience, we start with 15 minutes of Q&amp;A about narcissism addressing these questions: 1) Does acknowledging our own narcissism makes us more or less vulnerable to exploitation by another person? 2) Are children of parents with borderline personalities more likely to be attracted to narcissistic partners? 3)What is “healthy narcissism”?  Then from the 15-minute mark to the 50-minute mark, we engage in an experiential exercise together to encounter and connect with parts of ourselves with narcissistic features.  Afterward, we debrief and share our experiences addressing these topics and questions:  1) Can narcissistic approaches be helpful in certain situations or environments? 2)  Is narcissism the result of too much self-love or too little?  3) How can we get normal needs for affirmation met in non-narcissistic ways?  4) Why is it important to be gentle with narcissistic parts?  5) Why do narcissistic parts often sense themselves to be aged 2, 6, or 13?  6) Why is there such a “rush” or dopamine “high” when narcissistic parts receive the admiration and idealization that they seek?