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Blessed are the peacemakers! Peace comes from knowing your identity, but also knowing who God is. Knowing who you are and Whose you are changes everything. God is the only One who knows the depth of your struggle, and therefore He is the only One who could offer the exact reassurance of peace we so desperately need to hear. Are we confident in our spiritual inheritance as children of the Father? God promises us that if we stick with Him, He will give us peace that surpasses all understanding.

Know who you are. Know who He is. Know peace.

Episode 145 - A Freedom Greater Than Circumstances What makes us most free, is this submitting to God and this dependence on Him. Yes, freedom is actually dependent on obedience rather than kind of doing whatever I want. When we fall in love with God and we experience that love, this deep interior freedom takes place and it becomes the most important thing of our lives—even to a point that is greater than our circumstances. This episode is the first part of our series on Interior Freedom by Fr. Jacque Philippe that talks about what it means to live in freedom as sons and daughters of God and how this freedom can become greater than the circumstances of our lives. The Poco a Poco podcast happens because of many generous donors, including recurring monthly donations of any amount. Thinking about helping out? You can give at https://spiritjuice.org/supportpoco. Thank you! 🛒 You can also grab your Poco a Poco Merchandise at pocomerch.com!

A Freedom Greater Than Circumstances

Opening Credits

Preface

The Saint Monica Club

Being Willing to Cry Out to God

There are No Quick Fixes

Sitting at the Feet of Jesus

Do Something Loving

Be Kind, Not Nice

The Daily Surrender

Ask For Help

Keep Inviting Them In

Keep Living Life and Sharing What You Know

Meet Them Where They Are

Take Up the Cross by Treating Others with Dignity

Being an Attractive Witness to Marriage

There Will Always Be a Test

Your Job is to Inform and Witness

Hold On to the Nails, Not the Hurt

Guard Your Heart, so as to Remain Holy

As a Parent, You are Never Finished Loving

Lively Faith In Your Home Allows Divine Grace

Lord I Believe, Help My Unbelief

Be Brave Even in Little Things

Jesus Gives Lavishly

The Rosary is Your Best Tool

Find Your Consolation in Christ

Watch Yourself

Sacrements and Sacrementals

Its Still Hard and Will Be

The Domestic Church Is Your Refuse

At Best, We're Junior Assistants

Recognize Your Weak Points

Walking With Them

Love Will Break Hearts of Stone

The Soul Stolen Away

How Can We Be at Peace

Taking Up the Cross

Being Honest

Your Prodigal and the Rest of Your Family

The Dangers of Engaging in Intellectual Combat

Your Prodigals Absence May Allow you to be More Present

Beauty Will Save the World

The Hope That Is Ongoing

Not the Final Thoughts

Prayers to Saint Monica

Closing Credits

Maggie Green offers compassionate guidance for those grieving over loved ones who have left the Faith. Drawing inspiration from St. Monica's perseverance, she provides practical advice on how to love and pray for straying souls without confrontation. Green emphasizes that, like St. Monica, maintaining devoted love and patience can lead to the return of lost loved ones to the Church. This resource serves as a beacon of hope and a manual for enduring faith in the face of spiritual family crises.

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How Can Faith Be So Certain? | Fr. Gregory Pine, O.P.

Welcome to season 8! In this episode we talk about what the Lord has been teaching us over the summer and how we are invited to find our peace by fixing our eyes on Jesus and resting in the gaze of God. If we can look higher to find a kingdom perspective, we can find security in His Sovereignty. We talk about the deep realization that in all that has happened and has been taken away in 2020, there is no other answer, no other way forward, than Jesus Christ himself. Sister Miriam's one thing - <a href= "https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5X85txs60yY">Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus - Lauren Daigle</a> Michelle's one thing - The Life of Elise Angelette: <a href="https://youtu.be/fje5PafcIME">watch her Funeral Mass</a> (homily starts around minute 46) or <a href="https://every-little-thingblog.com">read more about her life</a> Heather's one thing - <a href= "https://www.pauseapp.com/">The One Minute Pause App</a> Book mentioned: <a href= "https://amzn.to/3jqdRNn">Get Your Life Back - by John Eldridge </a> Discussion questions: <ol> <li style="font-weight: 400;">What struck you from the podcast?</li> <li style="font-weight: 400;">What does it mean to "fix your eyes on God" every day? What areas have you done this in the last three months and what are areas you have found yourself searching for peace elsewhere?</li> <li style="font-weight: 400;">Sr. Miriam described our spiritual poverty as the places where we are vulnerable and dependent on the Lord. Where have you experienced this kind of poverty in the last three months?</li> </ol> Journal Questions: <ol> <li style="font-weight: 400;">What has been your prayer to the Lord the last three months? What has been the Lord's message to you in the last three months? </li> <li style="font-weight: 400;">What areas is the Lord inviting you to pray "Lord, do for me what I can't do for myself." ? Make a small act of surrender. Pray "Jesus, I surrender … please do for me what I cannot do for myself."</li> </ol> Quote to Ponder - "Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin." – Mother Teresa Scripture for Lectio Divina - 2 Corinthians 4:16-18 "Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal."

S08 Episode 01: New Beginnings

Fr. Mike knows the tricks we can play on ourselves when it comes to picking something for Lent. So he gives a straightforward guideline: Don’t pick something that’s arbitrary. Pick something that is necessary. 

In other words, don’t say you’re giving up watermelon when you know you will hardly eat watermelon anyway; and don’t give up hot showers if you know cold showers actually won’t help you grow in holiness. We can easily fool ourselves into thinking strictness equates to holiness. Likewise, we can fall into the trap of thinking that the easiest thing will be the most helpful. 

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Picking a Thing for Lent

In this episode, Father Mike Schmitz gives some direction that can lead to an answer for ourselves or someone we know. He shares how a vocation is more than just figuring out whether we’re called to married life or religious life, and it’s about more than just finding out what we like to do. As he breaks down three different types of vocation we all have, he draws a practical path we can follow to pursue holiness.<a rel="payment" href="https://ascensionpress.com/products/support-ascension">Support The Fr. Mike Schmitz Catholic Podcast</a>

What's My Vocation?

Is it important to memorize Scripture? Many of us are aware of how important it is to read and pray with Scripture. However, is it also important to memorize it? Today, Jeff shares the reasons for why he thinks it is important and beneficial to memorize the Word of God.

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Let the Word of God dwell richly within you.

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The Value of Memorizing Scripture

Homily from the Twelfth Sunday in Ordinary Time. Rebellion, Resentment, or Rejoicing. We are called to surrender to God's will. But how do we surrender? Is it a matter of feeling or is it a matter of something else? Surrender is an active, dynamic thing. And it is the opposite of rebellion and resentment.<dl style="margin : 0; padding-top:0;"><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> Mass Readings from June 23, 2024:</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> Job 38:1, 8-11</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> Psalms 107:23-26, 28-31</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;">2 Corinthians 5:14-17</dt> Mark 4:35-41

06/23/24 True Surrender

Episode 276 - Jesus, Meekness, and Fighting Satan What if meekness isn't weakness but the strongest way Jesus fights? In this episode, the friars turn to "Blessed are the meek" and uncover how meekness is not passivity or timidity, but the fruit of deep confidence and identity as sons of the Father. They explore how Jesus enters the ultimate battle, not with force or armor, but with humility, vulnerability, and unwavering trust in who He is. This is how He confronts temptation, resists Satan, and claims victory. They reflect on how our own battles are often fought in the same place: our identity. When we're rooted in the Father's love, insecurity loses its power, and we're free to stand firm without grasping, proving, or defending ourselves. Join us as we learn how meekness becomes strength, identity becomes armor, and Christ's victory becomes our own. The Poco a Poco podcast happens because of many generous donors, including recurring monthly donations of any amount. Thinking about helping out? You can give at <a href= "https://spiritjuice.org/supportpoco">https://spiritjuice.org/supportpoco</a>. Thank you! 🛒 You can also grab your Poco a Poco Merchandise at <a href= "https://www.pocomerch.com/">https://www.pocomerch.com/</a> Check out the Eight Promises of God: Discovering Hope Through the Beatitudes book at <a href= "https://ascensionpress.com/products/eight-promises-of-god-discovering-hope-through-the-beatitudes"> https://ascensionpress.com/products/eight-promises-of-god-discovering-hope-through-the-beatitudes</a>

Jesus, Meekness, and Fighting Satan

Dedication

Introduction

Why Stay Married?

We Don't Love Each Other Anymore

Things Aren't Working in Bed Anymore

We're Different

Cheating Seems to Be the Solution

He Cheated on Me

We Don't Speak the Same Language

We Don't Share the Same Faith

Our Children Seem Like a Challenge to Our Bond

He Makes Me Suffer

Women's Decalogue

The Men's Decalogue

About the Author

With humor and heartfelt wisdom, Costanza Miriano offers a practical and deeply relatable guide to thriving in marriage. Through personal stories and spiritual insights, she shows how struggles can sanctify, prayer can deepen intimacy, and perseverance can strengthen love. Blending cultural references with faith-filled advice, she shares keys to navigating challenges, nurturing virtue, and keeping your heart — and your marriage — anchored in Christ.

Blessed Is The Day We "Got It Wrong"

There are three offices that belong to the episcopal college: the teaching office, the sanctifying office, and the governing office. Fr. Mike gives us an overview of the functions within these offices and clarifies the charism of infallibility in matters of faith and morals. As we learn about the authority of the episcopal college, Fr. Mike encourages us to approach the teachings of the Church with docility. Today’s readings are Catechism paragraphs 888-896.

This episode has been found to be in conformity with the Catechism by the Institute on the Catechism, under the Subcommittee on the Catechism, USCCB.

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Day 124: Teaching, Sanctifying, and Governing  (2024)

Catholic pro-life advocate Stephanie Gray Connors debates abortionist Dr. Malcom Potts on whether abortion can ever be justified. Largest Catholic Apologetics conference ever!: <a href="https://www.virtualcatholicconference.com/PWA2020">https://www.virtualcatholicconference.com/PWA2020</a> Like what we're doing at PWA? Support us on Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/mattfradd">https://www.patreon.com/mattfradd</a> Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices">podcastchoices.com/adchoices</a>

BONUS: Abortion Debate - Stephanie Gray Connors Vs Abortionist, Dr. Malcom Potts

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Raising Kids Catholic + Q&A w/ Fr. Gregory Pine, O.P.

Looking for peace and simplicity? Get rid of the factors that complicate your life. Jeff zeroes in on the things that disrupt our peace and rupture our relationships. 

He explains how each of these things affects us and what we can do to overcome these disruptions and find our inner calm.

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“When we choose to sin, it complicates our lives in powerful ways ... we lose the integration between soul and body.”

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5 Things That Will Complicate Your Life

Art and Laraine Bennett explore the four classic temperaments—choleric, sanguine, melancholic, and phlegmatic—and their impact on marital dynamics. They provide insights into how these innate personality traits influence communication, affection, work habits, and spirituality within a marriage. Through practical advice and real-life examples, the Bennetts guide couples to better understand and appreciate their spouse's temperament, fostering deeper mutual respect and love.

The Temperament God Gave Your Spouse | eBook

I talk with Catholic speaker and regular guest of "Catholic Answers Live," Trent Horn, about evangelization, apologetics, and loads of other interesting topics. Trent brings the thunder for this first episode under the new show title! We talk for almost four hours on a wide range of topics (including an interruption from my dog). Trent is a heavyweight when it comes to his Catholic faith and few other apologists could preach the gospel as clearly and Gracefully as Trent. For more information on the change watch, the Announcement Video below. Confused? Watch the Announcement Video!: <a class="yt-simple-endpoint style-scope yt-formatted-string" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vOpThG_OVvU">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vOpTh...</a> --- SPONSORS EL Investments: <a href="https://www.elinvestments.net/pints">https://www.elinvestments.net/pints</a> Exodus 90: <a href="https://exodus90.com/mattfradd/">https://exodus90.com/mattfradd/</a> Hallow: <a href="http://hallow.app/mattfradd">http://hallow.app/mattfradd</a> STRIVE: <a href="https://www.strive21.com/">https://www.strive21.com/</a> GIVING Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/mattfradd">https://www.patreon.com/mattfradd</a> This show (and all the plans we have in store) wouldn't be possible without you. I can't thank those of you who support me enough. Seriously! Thanks for essentially being a co-producer coproducer of the show. LINKS Website: <a href="https://pintswithaquinas.com/">https://pintswithaquinas.com/</a> Merch: <a href="https://teespring.com/stores/matt-fradd">https://teespring.com/stores/matt-fradd</a> FREE 21 Day Detox From Porn Course: <a href="https://www.strive21.com/">https://www.strive21.com/</a> SOCIAL Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/mattfradd">https://www.facebook.com/mattfradd</a> Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/mattfradd">https://twitter.com/mattfradd</a> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mattfradd">https://www.instagram.com/mattfradd</a> MY BOOKS Does God Exist: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Does-God-Exist-Socratic-Dialogue-ebook/dp/B081ZGYJW3/ref=sr_1_9?dchild=1&amp;keywords=fradd&amp;qid=1586377974&amp;sr=8-9">https://www.amazon.com/Does-God-Exist-Socratic-Dialogue-ebook/dp/B081ZGYJW3/ref=sr_1_9?dchild=1&amp;keywords=fradd&amp;qid=1586377974&amp;sr=8-9</a> Marian Consecration With Aquinas: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Marian-Consecration-Aquinas-Growing-Closer-ebook/dp/B083XRQMTF/ref=sr_1_4?dchild=1&amp;keywords=fradd&amp;qid=1586379026&amp;sr=8-4">https://www.amazon.com/Marian-Consecration-Aquinas-Growing-Closer-ebook/dp/B083XRQMTF/ref=sr_1_4?dchild=1&amp;keywords=fradd&amp;qid=1586379026&amp;sr=8-4</a> The Porn Myth: <a href="https://www.ignatius.com/The-Porn-Myth-P1985.aspx">https://www.ignatius.com/The-Porn-Myth-P1985.aspx</a> CONTACT Book me to speak: <a href="https://www.mattfradd.com/speakerrequestform">https://www.mattfradd.com/speakerrequestform</a> Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices">podcastchoices.com/adchoices</a>

Apologetics Extravaganza (Trent Horn) | Ep. 188

We have arrived at the “nugget day” or the In Brief for the sections on The Father and Original Sin. Fr. Mike reiterates the important idea that every human person is good, but every human person is also broken. This brokenness and inclination towards sin is called concupiscence. However, as St. Paul reminds us “Where sin increased, grace abounded all the more” (Romans 5:20). Fr. Mike concludes with the sentiment of hope that we believe that the world has been established and set free by God’s love. Today’s readings are Catechism paragraphs 413-421. 

This episode has been found to be in conformity with the Catechism by the Institute on the Catechism, under the Subcommittee on the Catechism, USCCB.

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Please note: The Catechism of the Catholic Church contains adult themes that may not be suitable for children - parental discretion is advised.

Day 59: Summary of The Fall (2024)

We begin exploring the third commandment and learn about rest and worship concerning the Lord’s Day. The Catechism points out that God models what he wants for us as he also rested on the seventh day. Fr. Mike explains the importance of prioritizing rest for ourselves because we are free and no longer enslaved people. The Catechism describes how we are to keep the Lord’s Day holy with “outward, visible, public, and regular worship ‘as a sign of his universal beneficence to all.’” Today’s readings are Catechism paragraphs 2168-2176. 

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Day 281: Keep Holy the Lord’s Day

So we are just so ready to be REAL!! I'm actually not sure if Jackie Francois Angel or I could "pretend to have it all together." We talk about brokenness, healing, marriage, motherhood, breastfeeding, and so many more things. I hope you enjoy this chat. I know I really enjoy having it. The whole thing w/ Among the Lilies is to have these intimate and real conversations. I LOVE when I hear from ladies that almost catch themselves from talking back. I love that you want to join this chat.... please put questions and comments below, and I will do my best to follow up on those when I get more ladies on. https://jackieandbobby.com ____________________________ Don't forget that we have made https://www.cameronfradd.com/ the place where you can find all the things Among The Lilies! Check out our new shop with ATL merchandise, and we will be adding more items soon! Thank you all for your support. I am so grateful, and I love and am praying for y'all! Thank you for being here! If you are interested in supporting Among the Lilies (you will get access to a BUNCH of things including bonus content), please consider supporting us at https://www.patreon.com/AmongTheLilies By supporting us, you will get access to a BUNCH of things, including bonus content. Please join the Among the Lilies community on Instagram and Facebook! ➡️ https://www.facebook.com/AmongTheLiliess/ ➡️ https://www.instagram.com/among_the_lilies

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Drawing upon the teachings of Saint Augustine of Hippo and Saint Ignatius of Loyola, Father Mike and Father Jacob discuss the role of memory in the spiritual life, and also discuss some of the possible pitfalls of nostalgic escape.

The Sin of Nostalgia

This powerful true account shares the heroic witness of over 2,400 Catholic priests imprisoned at Dachau, where more than a third died for their faith. Through Fr. John Lenz’s firsthand stories and rare photos, see how these priests endured brutal suffering, ministered in secret, and proved that even in darkness, grace triumphs. Their courage and sacrifice reveal what it means to cling to Christ and find hope amid unimaginable evil.

Christ in Dachau | eBook

Change is always hard. Transitions in life are difficult. Goodbyes are never easy. Endings are rarely joyful. But today, Fr. Mike suggests that beginnings are even more crucial. He encourages us to take 3 steps whenever we start over, and to let each one of ourselves “be a beginner.”

Be patient with yourself.

Don’t freak out.

And be willing to ask for help.

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Saying Goodbye, Starting Over, and Transitioning

In this week's episode, Fr. Mike &amp; Jacob take a deep dive into the Gifts of the Holy Spirit.

7 Fruitful Gifts That Aren't Fruitcake

The desert isn't about struggling for the sake of struggle. There's a wrong kind of struggle; one that's self-reliant, self-focused, worldly. It's difficult for the Lord to do anything for us there. In the desert, the reality of the wilderness slams against pride and ego. Against "I know what's best" and "I'm strong." You get to the desert and it punches you in the face because everything's so heightened. You figure out real quick how self-focused you are. And that wake-up call is good, because we all have a temptation to turn in to ourselves. To fix ourselves. To fix the people around us. To control. We're so stuck in ourselves. Getting after this temptation? Now that's the right struggle. Don't get dragged through the desert, kicking and screaming and resisting the whole time. Use your will to choose the desert, whatever that desert looks like for you. It doesn't matter whether you see what God is doing in the suffering or know where He's leading you. You don't have to like it or even understand it. You only have to pray, "Lord, I trust you and I receive this." Because that safety you're trying to force with all your self-reliance? That safety is an idol. Let go. God's got you.

Safety Is an Idol (Lent Part Two)

Why should we remain Catholic when the Church is infected with corrupt people? Jeff understands that the Church is in trouble and being Catholic is not easy at this time, but the Church still has something to offer. 

The answer is simple: this is the Church that Jesus founded. 

Though corruption has affected the Church in the past, there has also been a lot of good that has come from it. From universities and the scientific method to working for the poor to sponsoring the arts, the one, holy, Catholic, and apostolic Church has had a major impact on the world. Do not leave the bridegroom. Set your face like a flint toward the Cross. 

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SHOWNOTES 
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(10:12) Matthew 13:31 - He put before them another parable: “The kingdom of heaven is like a mustard seed that someone took and sowed in his field; it is the smallest of all the seeds, but when it has grown it is the greatest of shrubs and becomes a tree, so that the birds of the air come and make nests in its branches.”

(13:38) Isaiah 50:7 - For the Lord God helps me; therefore I have not been confounded; therefore I have set my face like a flint, and I know that I shall not be put to shame.

(16:40) Luke 9:51 - When the days drew near for him to be received up, he set his face to go to Jerusalem.

(18:18) James 2:26 - For just as the body without the spirit is dead, so also faith without works is dead.

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Why Remain Catholic?

Together, with Fr. Mike, we explore the nature of man’s first sin or our “freedom put to the test.” Fr. Mike unpacks the importance of us understanding that freedom is not the power to “do what we want,” but rather, the power to “do what I ought.” Though the story of the first sin is that of our first parents, Fr. Mike emphasizes that we still repeat the grave error of the first sin in our own lives by preferring our own perceived “goods” over the “goods” of our Creator and Father in heaven. Today’s readings are Catechism paragraphs 396-401. 

This episode has been found to be in conformity with the Catechism by the Institute on the Catechism, under the Subcommittee on the Catechism, USCCB.

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Day 56: Man’s First Sin (2024)

Homily from the Solemnity of the Blessed Virgin Mary, the Mother of God. Mary, the Mother of God is the model for how to live well. Mary is the Mother of God because the baby in her womb was the Second Person of the Trinity. She also shows us how to leave last year in the past and step into the New Year wisely.<dl style="margin : 0; padding-top:0;"><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> Mass Readings from January 1, 2023:</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> Numbers 6:22-27</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;"> Psalms 67:2-3, 5, 6, 8</dt><dt style="font-weight:normal;">Galatians 4:4-7</dt> Luke 2:16-21

1/1/23 Hold, Reflect, and Remember

This episode is a short one, listen in as Cameron and Elisa discuss the summer plans for Among the Lilies podcast. As usual this is an unedited raw conversation. They discuss the difference between interviews and chats, the last four years of Among the Lilies, and how difficult it can be at times to juggle ATL work while being moms and wives. Enjoy! Thank you for being here! If you are interested in supporting Among the Lilies please consider supporting us at <a href= "https://www.patreon.com/AmongTheLilies">https://www.patreon.com/AmongTheLilies</a> Please join the Among the Lilies community on instagram and facebook! Facebook: <a href= "https://www.facebook.com/AmongTheLiliess/">https://www.facebook.com/AmongTheLiliess/</a> Instagram: <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/among_the_lilies">https://www.instagram.com/among_the_lilies</a>

149: Intro to Summer

VIDEO now available! Watch on Spirit Juice's YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v_wJgfHG1sI Episode 60 - Are You Stuck in the Ordinary? As Christians, what does our free time look like? Do we prioritize the same things as the world? Is there any difference in how we spend our time and money and attention? Those who know Jesus live differently. In important things, and also ordinary, everyday things. We're talking about the kind of mindset that changes the most important thing about Friday from "End of the Work Week!" to "The Day Our Lord Suffered and Died For Us." It can be a struggle to feel like everything is ordinary… but God wants to encounter us in that ordinary and make it extraordinary. Get your copy of Habits for Holiness (by Fr Mark-Mary Ames, CFR!) at <a href="https://ascensionpress.com/habits" target= "_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl= "https://www.google.com/url?q=https://ascensionpress.com/habits&source=gmail&ust=1623251966432000&usg=AFQjCNF7kwl1aAiO2k9zodChkmSAM6D1xQ"> https://ascensionpress.com/habits</a> The Poco a Poco podcast happens because of generous donors like you. You can give at <a href="https://spiritjuice.org/supportpoco" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl= "https://www.google.com/url?q=https://spiritjuice.org/supportpoco&source=gmail&ust=1623251966432000&usg=AFQjCNEOcVtc5LItzmf7zRuS6RICP6pDSA"> https://spiritjuice.org/supportpoco</a>. Thank you!

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Baal and Asherah v. Mercy God

In this week's episode, we reflect on the themes of resurrection, grief, and hope in Pope Francis' <a href= "https://www.vatican.va/content/francesco/en/homilies/2024/documents/20240330-omelia-veglia-pasquale.html"> Easter Vigil homily</a>. We chat about the sadness of unfulfilled dreams and the tender places in our hearts where we are afraid to hope and want to stay in the tomb. We also talk about the anxieties and worries that can come with trying to figure things out on our own and the importance of surrendering our plans to God. Just like Christ, we are called to walk through the sufferings of this life with Him into the Resurrection. Heather's One Thing - Her <a href= "https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6u4NUBzxralG1ZKwAZroWE?si=74a5cf7064804a41"> Easter playlist</a> Heather's Other One Thing - The book <a href= "https://osvcatholicbookstore.com/product/becoming-wife-saying-yes-to-more-than-the-dress"> Becoming Wife: Saying Yes to More than the Dress</a> by Rachel Bulman (<a href="https://amzn.to/4aMhN5F">or on Amazon here</a>) Sister Miriam's On Thing - The book <a href= "https://jpiihealingcenter.org/product/beloved-daughter/">Beloved Daughter</a> by Carrie Daunt Michelle's One Thing - The book <a href= "https://www.avemariapress.com/products/befriending-your-inner-child"> Befriending Your Inner Child: A Catholic Approach to Healing and Wholeness</a> by Brya Hanan (<a href="https://amzn.to/3UfyyRq">or on Amazon here</a>) Other Resources Mentioned: The <a href= "https://www.restoretheglorypodcast.com/">Restore the Glory Podcast</a> series on Parts Work (<a href= "https://www.restoretheglorypodcast.com/episodes/98">Parts Work (Part 1) w/ Gerry Crete; </a><a href= "https://www.restoretheglorypodcast.com/episodes/99">Parts Work (Part 2) w/ Brya Hanan; </a><a href= "https://www.restoretheglorypodcast.com/episodes/100">Parts Work (Part 3) w/ Bishop Andrew Miller)</a> Journal Questions: <ul> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation">What hopes have been dashed by the sorrowful mysteries of my life?</li> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation">Where are the places that I am afraid to hope?</li> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation">Do I believe my dreams are doomed to fail?</li> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation">What anxieties in my heart are preventing me from hoping?</li> </ul> Discussion Questions: <ul> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation">How are you still living in winter during the spring of Easter?</li> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation">Do you know how to practice Resurrection?</li> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation">In what ways do you believe your dreams rely on you for their fulfillment?</li> <li dir="ltr" role="presentation">How do you intellectualize or explain away your dreams?</li> </ul> Quote to Ponder: "Yet the same women who bore this darkness in their hearts tell us something quite extraordinary. When they looked up, they saw that the stone, which was very large, had already been rolled back. This is the Pasch of Christ, the revelation of God's power: the victory of life over death, the triumph of light over darkness, the rebirth of hope amid the ruins of failure. It is the Lord, the God of the impossible, who rolled away the stone forever. Even now, he opens our hearts, so that hope may be born ever anew. We too, then, should "look up" to him." (Pope Francis, <a href= "https://www.vatican.va/content/francesco/en/homilies/2024/documents/20240330-omelia-veglia-pasquale.html"> Easter Vigil Homily</a>) Scripture for Lectio: "When they looked up, they saw that the stone, which was very large, had already been rolled back." (Mark 16:4) Sponsor - Farm of the Child: Farm of the Child is a Catholic children's home, school and clinic in Trujillo, Honduras where children receive healing care from a team of Honduran staff, Franciscan sisters, and international missionaries. Each year, the Farm of the Child attracts dedicated missionaries who make a 2 year commitment of service. Missionaries come from all different walks of life in order to serve in a variety of functions such as teaching, nursing, project management and community outreach. After spending 6 weeks in Antigua, Guatemala learning Spanish, missionaries travel to the children's home where they live together and are guided by the four pillars of community, spirituality, simplicity and service. Short term immersion trips, remote and summer service opportunities are also available. If you think you might be called to serve in the capacity of an international missionary, email <a href= "mailto:missions@farmofthechild.org">missions@farmofthechild.org</a>. Want to learn more about how to get involved in the mission in the US? Check out farmofthechild.org and sign up for our monthly newsletter here: <a href= "https://www.farmofthechild.org/contact-us">https://www.farmofthechild.org/contact-us</a>

S14 E12 - Living in the Resurrection

Before we can see outward changes for the good in society, there must be inward conversion in the hearts of its members, so says the Catechism. Fr. Mike highlights the fact that societies are made up of people with both body and soul—and the soul is often overlooked. Because we are broken, there is a “permanent need” for our conversion, and any society that fails to take this into account is doomed to do violence to human dignity. Today’s readings are Catechism paragraphs 1886-1896.

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Day 250: Conversion in Society (2025)

Who is the Pope? Today, we focus on the role of the Pope in the Catholic Church as the Vicar of Christ and pastor of the entire Church. The Catechism teaches us that the institution of the papacy dates back to that powerful moment in the Gospel when Jesus changed Simon’s name to Peter, the “rock”, and handed him the keys of the Church. Fr. Mike unpacks this pivotal moment and helps us understand why the Pope is so foundational to the Faith. Today’s readings are Catechism paragraphs 880-887. 

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Day 123: The Pope (2025)

How do we respond to tragedy? Jeff delves into the devastating LA fires and focuses on the role of the body of Christ during such crises. He explores the importance of empathy, understanding the value of home and community, and how the Church can support those affected by tragedy through prayer, volunteering, and compassion.

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Thoughts about the LA Fires

Have you ever said the words from the Creed at Mass, “he descended into hell” and wondered, “Really? Jesus did? Why?” The Catechism shares the secrets of this line from the Creed and shows us how Jesus’ descent into hell “brings the Gospel message of salvation to complete fulfillment.” Fr. Mike makes it clear to us that Jesus did not come to save only the righteous who happened to be alive during his time here on earth, but he came to save all those righteous men and women who came before him and would come after him. Today&#39;s readings are Catechism paragraphs 631-637.

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Day 90: Christ Descended into Hell (2024)

Dan Burke delves into St. Alphonsus Liguori's classic, "Uniformity with God's Will," providing contemporary reflections and practical applications. He offers insights on embracing divine providence, recognizing the pitfalls of resisting God's will, and adopting spiritual disciplines to foster inner peace. Through real-life examples and reflection questions, readers are guided to trust in God's plan, even amid life's adversities, leading to a deeper union with Him.

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Making Room for Others In the second part of our Advent series, we interview Ennie Hickman, our good friend and founder of <a href="https://www.delreycollective.com/">Del Rey Collective</a>. We talk in depth about what it means to actually love our neighbor and how to make "room at the inn" for strangers and people in the periphery of our lives. We also talk about hospitality and making our hearts ready for guests before making our homes ready. Ennie's one thing - <a href= "https://amzn.to/2Xt9cQR">The Wingfeather Saga</a> by Andrew Peterson Sister Miriam's one thing - <a href= "https://amzn.to/2CVIjeU">Silicone Tea Cover</a> Michelle's one thing - <a href= "https://www.twopeasandtheirpod.com/easy-white-chicken-chili/"> Easy White Chicken Chili</a> Heather's one thing - Heather's Mom's Coconut Jam Tarts Ingredients:2 eggs3/4 cup sugar1 tsp cornstarchPinch of salt1/4 cup melted butter1 tbsp lemon juice1 tsp vanilla1 1/2 cups shredded unsweetened coconutRaspberry jam18-20 frozen regular size tart shells Instructions: Preheat oven to 375 degrees.Lay frozen tarts out on a foil lined cookie sheet. In a bowl combine sugar, cornstarch and salt. In a separate bowl beat eggs, then add combined sugar, cornstarch and salt. Add cooled melted butter, lemon juice and vanilla. Stir in coconut. Add approximately 1/2 tsp (or a bit more) of raspberry jam to the middle of the frozen tart shell, then cover till 3/4 full with coconut mixture. Fill all the tarts like this. Bake at 375 for about 23 minutes or until golden brown on top. Eat, enjoy, and try not to be swept away in ecstasy. Discussion questions: <ol> <li style="font-weight: 400;">What struck you from the podcast?</li> <li style="font-weight: 400;">How have you encountered Jesus through your neighbors or people in your life?</li> <li style="font-weight: 400;">Have you ever considered a "love experiment" that you can practice?</li> <li style="font-weight: 400;">What's one way you can practice "crazy" generosity?</li> <li style="font-weight: 400;">What holds you back from reaching out to your neighbors and strangers?</li> </ol> Journal Questions: <ol> <li style="font-weight: 400;">Reflect and journal about this scripture: Matthew 25:35. What does it speak to you personally? </li> <li style="font-weight: 400;">Living the Gospel is simple, but it's not easy. Where can you "begin before you're ready"?</li> <li style="font-weight: 400;">Ask the Holy Spirit where he wants you to zoom in - what is He saying to you?</li> </ol> Quote to Ponder - "I want you to be concerned about your next door neighbor. Do you know your next door neighbor?" - Saint Mother Teresa Scripture for Lectio Divina - Matthew 25:35 "I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me."

S06 Episode 14: Making Room for Others

In this episode, we continue our annual tradition, sharing our Word of the Year! Each year we each ask God to give us a theme to focus on for the new year and invite you to do the same. After personal prayer and reflection, we share our words for 2023 and how our words of the year have been connected over time. At the end of the episode, we also share an exciting announcement about our upcoming Lenten Book Study and insights into the theme for Season 12 of the podcast! Sister Miriam's One Thing - <a href= "https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QlcoEC-hNfg">Belovedness</a> by Sarah Kroger Heather's One Thing- <a href= "https://open.spotify.com/playlist/70Qs7jupSFXT8VyzfhcKq6?si=3eab1ed3d7fd447f"> Only Jesus Playlist</a> Michelle's One Thing - <a href= "https://youtu.be/_LBkgjUVIR4">Amanda Cook Edens</a> Michelle's Other One Thing - <a href= "https://amzn.to/3iEQx3e">Placemakers: Cultivating Places of Comfort, Beauty, and Peace</a> - Christie Purifoy Discussion Questions: <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">What stood out to you from this week's episode?</li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">Which podcast host's "word" resonated most with you and why?</li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">After prayer and reflection, what's your word of the year? </li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">How can you see your spiritual progress through the evolution of your words of the year over the past few years? How have these words or themes built upon each other? </li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">If you have never done word of the year and want to, what ways can you ask God what it is? </li> </ul> Journal Questions: <ul> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">How was God present to you in your word for 2022?</li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">Take some time to reflect on what God desires to reveal to you as your word of the year. Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal this to you. Make sure to write it down and memorialize it in a way that will keep it at the forefront of your mind throughout the year. </li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">What is one change you can make in the coming year to be more open to the will of God?</li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">What themes has God been using as an opportunity to encounter Him? </li> <li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">Are there specific scriptures, saints, or quotes that will serve as a guide or reminder of your word during the year?</li> </ul> Quotes to Ponder: Trust makes us willing to be what God wants us to be, however great or however little that may prove. Trust accepts God as illimitable Love." // Caryll Houselander, "No half-heartedness and no worldly fear must turn us aside from following the light unflinchingly." // J. R. R. Tolkien "He who climbs never stops going from beginning to beginning, through beginnings that have no end. He never stops desiring what he already knows." // Saint Gregory of Nissa "We can only learn to know ourselves and do what we can, namely, surrender our will and fulfill God's will in us." // Saint Teresa of Avila Scripture for Lectio: "Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him, he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinners so that you will not grow weary and lose heart." (Hebrews 12:1-3) Announcements: We are excited to announce our Lenten Book study!! This year, we will be reading Be Transformed by Dr. Bob Schuchts. Through the guide of this book, we will discuss how the Sacraments can heal and transform your relationship with Jesus Christ. Supplies are limited so we recommend you order your copy of the book as soon as possible. Ave Maria Press is in the process ordering more and by purchasing early, you can help them estimate how many are needed. <a href= "https://www.avemariapress.com/products/be-transformed"> Ave Maria Press</a> has graciously provided us a discount code if you order the book through their website. Use the code TRANSFORM at checkout to receive 25% off not only Be Transformed, but your entire order (through 3.31.23 with some exclusions)! You can also order the book through Amazon using our affiliate link. We do receive a small commission if you use our Amazon link. Anything we receive is used to help support our ministry. Click here for <a href= "https://amzn.to/3GmiOEY">Amazon in the US</a>. Sponsor - Pink Salt Riot: This year we are once again excited to partner with Pink Salt Riot to help you keep your word of the year close to your heart for 2023. In addition to brand new, updated versions of all of their word of the year necklaces and bracelets they have offered in the past, this year they are also offering an engraved cherry wood word of the year desk sign and a word of the year journal with prompts for each month throughout the year to help you walk even more intentionally with your word. All Pink Salt Riot word of the year products are custom made and engraved in their studio in Oklahoma. You can get 15% off your ENTIRE order at Pink Salt Riot with the coupon code AT15 at checkout through March 15, 2023 at <a href= "http://pinksaltriot.com/">pinksaltriot.com</a>.

S12 E2 - Word of the Year

As Augustine says (De Civ. Dei i, 13): "If a father's coat or ring, or anything else of that kind, is so much more cherished by his children, as love for one's parents is greater, in no way are the bodies themselves to be despised, which are much more intimately and closely united to us than any garment; for they belong to man's very nature." It is clear from this that he who has a certain affection for anyone, venerates whatever of his is left after his death, not only his body and the parts thereof, but even external things, such as his clothes, and such like. Now it is manifest that we should show honor to the saints of God, as being members of Christ, the children and friends of God, and our intercessors. Wherefore in memory of them we ought to honor any relics of theirs in a fitting manner: principally their bodies, which were temples, and organs of the Holy Ghost dwelling and operating in them, and are destined to be likened to the body of Christ by the glory of the Resurrection. Hence God Himself fittingly honors such relics by working miracles at their presence. ST III, Q. 25, A. 6. --- SPONSORS EL Investments: <a href="https://www.elinvestments.net/pints">https://www.elinvestments.net/pints</a> Exodus 90: <a href="https://exodus90.com/mattfradd/">https://exodus90.com/mattfradd/</a> Hallow: <a href="http://hallow.app/mattfradd">http://hallow.app/mattfradd</a> STRIVE: <a href="https://www.strive21.com/">https://www.strive21.com/</a> GIVING Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/mattfradd">https://www.patreon.com/mattfradd</a> This show (and all the plans we have in store) wouldn't be possible without you. I can't thank those of you who support me enough. Seriously! Thanks for essentially being a co-producer coproducer of the show. LINKS Website: <a href="https://pintswithaquinas.com/">https://pintswithaquinas.com/</a> Merch: <a href="https://teespring.com/stores/matt-fradd">https://teespring.com/stores/matt-fradd</a> FREE 21 Day Detox From Porn Course: <a href="https://www.strive21.com/">https://www.strive21.com/</a> SOCIAL Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/mattfradd">https://www.facebook.com/mattfradd</a> Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/mattfradd">https://twitter.com/mattfradd</a> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mattfradd">https://www.instagram.com/mattfradd</a> MY BOOKS Does God Exist: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Does-God-Exist-Socratic-Dialogue-ebook/dp/B081ZGYJW3/ref=sr_1_9?dchild=1&amp;keywords=fradd&amp;qid=1586377974&amp;sr=8-9">https://www.amazon.com/Does-God-Exist-Socratic-Dialogue-ebook/dp/B081ZGYJW3/ref=sr_1_9?dchild=1&amp;keywords=fradd&amp;qid=1586377974&amp;sr=8-9</a> Marian Consecration With Aquinas: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Marian-Consecration-Aquinas-Growing-Closer-ebook/dp/B083XRQMTF/ref=sr_1_4?dchild=1&amp;keywords=fradd&amp;qid=1586379026&amp;sr=8-4">https://www.amazon.com/Marian-Consecration-Aquinas-Growing-Closer-ebook/dp/B083XRQMTF/ref=sr_1_4?dchild=1&amp;keywords=fradd&amp;qid=1586379026&amp;sr=8-4</a> The Porn Myth: <a href="https://www.ignatius.com/The-Porn-Myth-P1985.aspx">https://www.ignatius.com/The-Porn-Myth-P1985.aspx</a> CONTACT Book me to speak: <a href="https://www.mattfradd.com/speakerrequestform">https://www.mattfradd.com/speakerrequestform</a> Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices">podcastchoices.com/adchoices</a>

45: What are relics? Why should we venerate them?

<ol><li>Intro  <ol><li>It is good to have you with us,</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Peter Malinoski, clinical psychologist</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Weekly Podcast Interior Integration for Catholics </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Part of our Online outreach Souls and Hearts and soulsandhearts.com</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Episode 65  Why Catholic Spouses Find it Hard to Empathize with Each Other, Especially About Sex -- with Solutions.  -- we are in the middle of a series on Sexuality in Catholic Marriages, but don't worry if you are not married, there is so much for you in today's episode that applies to any close relationship.  </li></ol></li><li> </li><li>Definitions of Empathy:  <ol><li>Daniel Siegel:  Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the UCLA School of Medicine.  Interpersonal Neurobiology. <ol><li>Interpersonal Neurobiology  <ol><li>Wikipedia: Interpersonal neurobiology (IPNB) or relational neurobiology is an interdisciplinary framework associated with human development and functioning. It was developed in the 1990s by Daniel J. Siegel who sought to bring together a wide range of scientific disciplines in demonstrating how the mind, brain, and relationships integrate to alter one another.</li></ol></li><li> </li><li>Dan Siegel's work is very accessible -- easier for non-professionals to understand, very available.  </li><li>Five types of Empathy  -- Short YouTube Video  <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qdhMY_DNb1M">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qdhMY_DNb1M</a>  5 Levels.   There's an order to them.  <ol><li>Emotional Resonance or attunement</li><li>Perspective Taking</li><li>Cognitive Empathy</li><li>Compassion -- Seigel calls it Empathetic Concern</li><li>Empathetic Joy</li></ol></li><li>I am going to expand on his basic presentation.  </li><li>Expanded definitions of empathy  <ol><li>Emotional Resonance, attunement, empathic resonance -- receiver begins to feel what the sender is feeling.  You feel the feelings of the other person.  <ol><li>Attunement ‘is a kinesthetic and emotional sensing of others knowing their rhythm, affect and experience by metaphorically being in their skin, and going beyond empathy to create a two-person experience of unbroken feeling connectedness by providing a reciprocal affect and/or resonating response’. (Clinical psychologist Richard Erksine 1998).</li><li>When we attune with others we allow our own internal state to shift, to come to resonate with the inner world of another. This resonance is at the heart of the important sense of “feeling felt” that emerges in close relationships. Children need attunement to feel secure and to develop well, and throughout our lives we need attunement to feel close and connected."  Dan Siegel</li><li>Moderation  <ol><li>Emotional contagion.  This really can be overwhelming  <ol><li>Experience of being sucked into the other's experience -- blending or fusing with the other with a loss of boundaries</li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Perspective Taking:  Let me put myself in the other's skin -- in the other shoes.   Not a fusion  <ol><li>Capacity to enter into your spouse's internal world with your own mind to consider the other's experience</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>You remain separate from the other person.  </li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Cognitive Empathy: -- a bit further  -- what does the experience mean for the person.  Memory, emotion, history influences the other.  Empathetic understanding.  <ol><li>So much of our suffering comes not from the facts of our situation, but from the meaning we make from those facts.  </li></ol></li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Compassion:  Empathic Concern -- synonym for compassion.  I feel your pain, I want to reduce your suffering.  <ol><li>You feel the suffering</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Take the suffering in</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Use of the imagination -- what could I do now to help you feel better.  </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Be with the person -- doing flows from that being</li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Empathic joy -- I get so excited about your success -- delighting in and with the other. <ol><li>Joy in who the spouse is, not what the child does -- "delighting in the spouses very being </li><li>Wife believes in the husband's goodness -- the husband is precious, worth sacrificing for and vice versa.  </li><li>Song of Songs -- Joy 1:4 We will exult and rejoice in you; we will extol your love more than wine  </li></ol></li></ol></li><li> </li><li>Review  <ol><li>Emotional Resonance or attunement</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Perspective Taking</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Cognitive Empathy</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Compassion -- Seigel calls it Empathetic Concern</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Empathetic Joy</li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li></ol></li><li> </li><li>Empathy is the mattress on our Catholic Canopied Marriage bed, which I introduced in episode 58 -- working with that metaphor.  The mattress on a bed -- we want the mattress to be consistent and solid, firm and not lumpy.  <ol><li>The frame and box spring -- firm commitment between the husband and the wife, the upholding of the marriage vows Episode 64  <ol><li>It's the charity.  Willing the highest good for one another -- sacrificial love</li></ol></li><li> </li><li>four legs of the bed.  <ol><li>Leg 1 -- the husband's commitment to his own interior integration, his own human formation, his psychological health, his emotional wellbeing -- removing the beam from his own eye -- last episode. Episode 63</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Leg 2.  the wife's commitment to her own interior integration, her own human formation, her own psychological health, her own emotional wellbeing -- her taking on her own personal responsibility for her natural life  last episode. Episode 63</li><li>Leg 3.  Attachment Needs and Integrity Needs --  Episode 62,</li><li>Leg 4.  Internal Family Systems approaches -- understanding deeply how the human person is both a unity and a multiplicity -- like an orchestra is a unity -- one orchestra, but also has within it multiplicity, multiple musicians -- check out Episodes 60 and 61</li></ol></li><li>The rock-solid floor in the bedroom is the Foundation -- The presence of God -- and an active belief in God's Providence  <ol><li>This is the foundation</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Childlike trust, absolute confidence</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Reflects the reality of our existential dependence and God's paternal care, Mary's maternal care for us.  </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>So many Catholic try to solve their marriage issues without bringing in anything spiritual</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Or they avoid any meeting between faith and sex.  </li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li>Why we lack different kinds of empathy  <ol><li>In General  <ol><li>Lack of interior integration</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Lack of benevolence -- good will.  Lack of seeking the good for our spouse and being willing to suffer for it  <ol><li>Conditionality  <ol><li>I'll work on it if my wife does X and Y</li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>I'll start trying again if my husband stops behavior Z.  </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Not what your vows say.  </li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in their shoes. That way, you'll be a mile from them, and you'll have their shoes. Jack Handey.  </li></ol></li><li> </li></ol></li><li> <ol><li>Lack of consistency...</li></ol></li></ol></li></ol>

65 Why Catholic Spouses Find it Hard to Empathize with Each Other, Especially about Sex -- with Solutions.

Sometimes we even know what we need, but we're afraid to tell someone. We think, "Well, I don't want to be too much of a bother. I don't want them to think I'm too much like this or too much like that." But we need to communicate. We need to look at someone and say, "This is what I need." In emergencies, I think we all do it. But in normal day-to-day life, we need to do this. We need to have people in our lives who know us well, love us, and that can communicate like that! ---------------------- Don't forget that we have made <a href= "https://www.cameronfradd.com/">https://www.cameronfradd.com/</a> the place where you can find all the things Among The Lilies! Check out our new shop with ATL merchandise and we will be adding more items soon! Thank you all for your support. I am so grateful and I love and am praying for y'all! Thank you for being here! If you are interested in supporting Among the Lilies (you will get access to a BUNCH of things including bonus content) please consider supporting us at <a href= "https://www.patreon.com/AmongTheLilies">https://www.patreon.com/AmongTheLilies</a> By supporting us you will get access to a BUNCH of things including bonus content. Please join the Among the Lilies community on Instagram and Facebook! ➡️ <a href= "https://www.facebook.com/AmongTheLiliess/">https://www.facebook.com/AmongTheLiliess/</a> ➡️ <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/among_the_lilies">https://www.instagram.com/among_the_lilies</a>